Jane knows this….but thought I’d share my ramblings with all…..
We both attended Mabelreighn Girls High School back in the early 60′s, and I remember gazing up from the cold hall floor, where we sat cross-legged, at those on the stage; the Headmistress, Miss Turner, and the prefects. Jane was a prefect, and though she was unaware of the fact, I worshipped her from afar!! No…..I never reached that ‘stage’, and it was many years later, when Sal and Tom became engaged that we were re-introduced. I even lent her my precious copies of M.G.H.S. magazines circa 1960 to show her pictures in which she featured, both as a prefect and sportswoman; dizzy heights to which I did not aspire.
Over the years Sal and Tom have been together, Jane and I have shared many lunches and get-togethers and her poise, demeanour and deep beliefs are stronger than ever. A remarkable person. Thank you Jane for those shared moments.
Tom has inherited all those attributes as well as countless others (from Robert?) though I have to add, Tom has no singing ability that I am aware of. David and I consider ourselves so fortunate to have him as our son-in-law.
If ever I need something to read (not often I add) Tom would supply me with a book that seemed just right for the occasion (though I still don’t understand his love for Terry Prachett and his World- I’ll stick to the Hobbits.)
His gentle ways, enthusiasm for life and determination in all fields is evident to all. His concern for others becomes more apparent by the day. Just yesterday, whilst at their house, their maid (Gogo) told me that her daughters school were praying for Tom- he had donated them many books, the Gardener was praying, as was his mother and their church as Tom used to personally deliver them wood logs. They and their friends were all praying for their “Father” (who is half their age)
Dearest Tom…. I still have, and love, my special pewter Xmas Dragon who rides a sleigh loaded with gifts, one of which is a beautiful round crystal. (I’m not sure if that was Tom’s subtle way of perceiving me! Though I hope I am more often the crystal and not the dragon!!)
It’s Fathers Day this Sunday and my greatest hope is that you Tom, will share some of that day with Ciara and Erin (I was touched by Shirley Harrison’s comment of Tom kissing his girls goodbye in the school car park as they headed for their classrooms)
Those girls are his life and we should all hold the family in our hearts, particularly on Sunday. ( And for all the other Dads out there, enjoy your day too.) Even though I’m 60+ my Dad still occupies so much of my heart and mind.
To Tom, you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers, and we DO visualise ‘Golden Light’ going your way from across the miles.
We know you have the fortitude and strength of character to face this awful situation, and am convinced that somehow you will turn it into something positive and meaningful.
So, Tom, whether I’m a dragon or a crystal, I’m still your Mother-in-Law, and love you unreservedly, and to Sally our daughter, you are special and we love you. Dad and I wish we could be with you this weekend.
Happy Fathers Day to all.

Hi,
Dave McComb and George Makings have managed to open a Zimbabwe account for those who want to make donations there. Details of the account are available on the “Donate” page which you can navigate to via the tab above.

Mike Wray is in Joburg and he is overseeing all the financial stuff, with the help of the various trustees. He will give you all an update when he’s had a chance to do a proper look around, but it does seem increasingly likely that funds will be needed for at least some specialised rehabilitative equipment. Please keep the fundraising ideas and donations coming!