When I have an itch I can’t scratch, I say: “Hello itch. Thank you for making me aware of you. I can now see that you are a temporary thing. Therefore I choose not to invest any more energy or worry in you”.
I then take ten deep breaths focussing on my ‘in’ breath and gently releasing the itch on my ‘out’ breath. This normally works and is a technique that can be used on anger, fear, panic and other negative emotions. Worry has no value.
My temporary setback only serves to create a stronger platform from which to step forward. My mood is buoyant and I am as positive as ever. Thank you for your comments which mean a lot to me.
Lots of love,
Tom
















#1 by jules at July 9th, 2009
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your spirit and determination are an inspiration Tom. I love you loads and loads – will be with you again soon on my way back to zimbabwe… I love you loads my special cousin, the boys continue to pray here and all the teachers at school too – your network extends far beyond the people you know – we are all breathing in and out for you. Strength determination and renewed energy to you my very special cousin xxx Jules
#2 by Vivienne at July 9th, 2009
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From Monica,who doesn’t know you, on reading ‘Itch’
This is inspiration for most of us who can’t take a little pain. May the good Lord RESTORE WHAT HAS BEEN TEMPORARILY LOST.
#3 by desire' ( robs friends) at July 10th, 2009
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Hi Tom
These are some words of encouragement, I am sending distant healing and have requested Archangel Michael to proctect you in this time of need and Archangel Raphael to heal you and to be with you thru this time in your life…. You have 8 angels around all the times so request their help…allyou need to do is ask…. I wish you a speedy recovery and with send lots of love and light to you and your family.
STRENGTH
written by: G. Scott Compton
Copyright ©2004 G. Scott Compton
To the strong soul who learns to defy his or her own fears.
Life is a test insistent upon strength
Each person is challenged at analogous lengths
Yet the vie to subsist will exhaust the timorous some
For the Lord’s race is imputed to all…to run
This is to avow: you must believe
As you are special…allow no one to deceive
For what you have learned will make you stronger
If only to love and be loved one day longer
Others may look upon the Sun going down
A vanishing hope, the benighted frowns
But you must learn to see the resilience of the night
As a testament to each given day…to your unforgiving might
Thus revere your kin and formative youth
Whilst both bleed one’s vigor to nourish this truth:
Strength is innate and must be held deep inside
A rule in life’s book by which everyone should abide
So tonight when the Sun has given up and retired
Look upon the day and all that which you have inspired
For everything you wish for will someday come true
Your strength is there….your strength is YOU!
Love and light
Desire’
#4 by Michelle Amyot at July 10th, 2009
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Thinking of the four of you
Hugs
Michelle xxxx
#5 by Erin Soper at July 12th, 2009
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hello dad I love you so much and I am missing you I am going to have a cowgirl Party and Tess is coming to my Party and Tess is going to bring me a cowgirl hat. and she is going to bring Tommas xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love ERIN
#6 by Ciara Soper at July 12th, 2009
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HI Daddy
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
AND I MISS you SO
MUCH
LOTS OF LOVE
CIARA
#7 by charity Chitauro at July 12th, 2009
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God bless you Tom.