Silly season is well and truly amongst us. I lay up last night thinking that we should send out a newsletter for 2009 together with season greetings. I then realized that it’s all here anyway, right on this website. Or at least the last seven months of it is. The beginning of the year was characterized by various cycling events including an awesome Sani-2c and a blustery Argus. With this in mind, I would like to make mention of my latest acquisition-an exercise bike! With a portion of the funding raised, your Christmas present to me is an electrical stimulation bicycle that will allow me to get back into one of my passions in life whilst assisting my bone density, joint integrity and general fitness.
On the topic of spending money raised, you may be interested to note that I have identified three disadvantaged children whom Tom’s discretionary fund will be putting through school next year [school fees, uniforms, books, nutrition etc.]. I am hoping to have pictures and the full story up on the website by January, but thanks to Ryan Wiberly and the Humber crew who specifically requested that their funds be put to a charitable cause. More welcome of course!
It’s great to be home in Zimbabwe. I have been back one month already and time seems to be flying. Routines are gradually beginning to emerge, and I am back into the swing of things at work. I have been inundated with visitors, made several public outings and got really well set up at home with regards to computing and communicating with the world [on Skype]. Best of all however, is being with my family!
For 2010, I offer you the same advice that I’m taking myself – to simply be as aware as possible of each moment. The clarity and appreciation of things exactly as they are might astonish you. In addition, I would like to borrow a phrase from one of Mary Oliver’s poems -
“for how long will you continue to listen to those dark shouters, caution and prudence? Fall in! Fall in!”
Finally some thank yous – to the organizers and participants of the croquet day in Johannesburg, the Cape Town walk and of course, the Humber (hilarity!) challenge right here in Zimbabwe. You guys are really great.
Have a fantastic Christmas!
Tom
















#1 by Lyn at December 17th, 2009
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Merry Christmas Tom, Sal and girls … from a blustery, cold, snowy England! Enjoy the bike … with love The Strydoms (Joe, Lyn and Toni) xxx
#2 by Paul and Leanne Van Hoof at December 17th, 2009
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merry christmas to the Soper family and all good things for 2010! Love from all of us. xxx
#3 by Morag Teasdale at December 17th, 2009
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To the Soper family, who have endured so very much this year, your story has touched so many lives and has been such an inspiration to so many people…..wishing you a blessed Christmas and may 2010 be full of only good things! Kind Regards – Morag Teasdale (Auckland, ex Byo)
#4 by Kate and Andrew Logan at December 18th, 2009
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Dearest Tom, Sal, Ciara and Erin,
Wishing you all an extra special Family Christmas together in Zim. We’ll be thinking of you all and know that 2010 will be a year full of positive things for you all.
With lots of love
The Logans
xxx
#5 by Patch at December 18th, 2009
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Tom, Sally and family. Hope you have a great festive season back home where you belong. I’m glad the mad Humber riders helpoed you and others out. Good luck on the exercise bike, hope you get the same feelings of release. Keep smiling. Patch xxx
#6 by Ben&Nat at December 18th, 2009
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Dear Tom,Sal & girls. A wish for all the things that can fill Christmas with happiness, lots of love Ben,Nat&kids
#7 by Freya Thomson at December 18th, 2009
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What a fabulous, uplifting update, Tom. I send you warm wishes for a very happy christmas – I really hope that you have a good end to it after the torrid time you have had. Very pleased to hear about your bike and your being back at work; more pleasing to hear the undoubted positivity that pervades your posting – good on you! With love to you all from us all, Freya, Simon, Alex, Anna, Isla and Adam xxxx
#8 by Mark Nielson at December 18th, 2009
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Tom,
So great to hear that you’re up and about and putting that impressive mind of yours to work. Inspiring as ever and I might just make that ‘plunge in’ commitment for the new year. I hope MW will be with you by now, I wish you all a fine weekend together and a whole lot of heart felt love to you all.
#9 by Errol and Tina at December 19th, 2009
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Dear Tom, Sal, Ciara and Erin – Wishing you all a very Happy Christmas together and all the best for 2010. Tom your christmas message was so inspiring – you are such an amazing, courageous person and an inspiration to us all. So pleased to hear about your bike and that you are back at work. I loved Bren’s post and I can see two special men enjoying a whiskey together on your verandah. Lots of love to you all. Errol and Tina
#10 by Julia Weyl Pettengill at December 20th, 2009
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Merry Christmas Soper Family!
What a beautiful thought,….
you celebrating together as a family…a miracle!
Wishing you a special holiday season and a spectacular 2010!
Here’s to many more miracles!
x Julia, Mark, Ava & Sophie
#11 by Jules and Mike at December 20th, 2009
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Dear Tom, Sal, Kiks and Roo
Happy happy Christmas to all of you. So pleased that you are home to share Christmas with your family Tom. Sending you so much love,
Jules, Mike and Sammy xxx
#12 by Chris & Lizzie Moon at December 20th, 2009
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Wishing you all love this Christmas. Be kind to yourselves and we Moons very much look forward to sharing some precious moments with the Sopers et al. It will be 4 years to the very day that we packed up in Zim to head South – I can’t believe how time has whistled by. Catch up soon. Lizzie
#13 by Kat at December 21st, 2009
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Dearest Tom,
You are too amazing for words!
Kat
xxx
#14 by Wendy Greenway at December 21st, 2009
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Dearest Tom and Sal,
How uplifting to read this post. I found myself smiling broadly as I read it, especially at the part about being with your family Tom. After a year of receiving what seemed like blow after blow, I feel grateful that you are home, that Sal and the girls can put that long dark time behind them, and that we your friends can too. I find myself grateful for so many things, big and small, many of which I might not have appreciated this time last year! Can’t wait to see the new bike! Happy, happy Xmas to you and your girls. lots of lovexxxx
#15 by Trevor at December 23rd, 2009
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Hi Tom
Sorry there appears to be some confusion with TourDeHumber money that was raised… While you are free to pass on the money to a charity if you wish, the money was raised for you..
Have a wonderful Christmas and new year.
Love
‘Tricky’ Trev
#16 by Jim and Tsungi at December 23rd, 2009
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To the Soper family,
All our very best wishes for a
very happy Christmass and a good New Year.
Tom, Tsungi and me will be at your Mum and Dad,s place on Christmas day and you all will be in our thoughts,
Much love to you all,
Jim and Tsungi
#17 by Vicki Penfold at December 27th, 2009
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Hi Sopers!
Thinking of you at this special family time…we are all here at Mum n dad’s place in Sedgefield having great beach days.
Lots of love to you all – looking forward to seeing you in Zims sometime in 2010!
Vicki
#18 by Claire and Carl Harrison at December 30th, 2009
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Our dear friend Tom
We’ve only today 30th Dec found out about what 2009 has dealt you! Both Carl and I are stunned and speechless – the latter hard to believe of me I know Tom!
I had been wondering about your annual Xmas email and the path led me to your website…
In a nutshell what we want to say to you & Sally at Xmas, and as the New Year opens up to you, is something a friend told me many years ago about what she had discovered through her journey of loss and adversity…
‘Ask not why do bad things happen to good people but rather what happens to good people when bad things happen to them’.
The answer to the question is of course right here in the pages of this amazing site – something that is indeed, as previously stated, a testimony to you Tom Soper and your always open, kind and true nature. Once met never forgotten! We’ll continue to follow your progress in 2010 and send all our positive vibes!
With all our love and fond memories indeed of work and play
Claire and Carl Harrison, and with kisses & cuddles from William, Joy and Honor xxxxx
(Auckland ex London!)
#19 by Karen Derbyshire at December 31st, 2009
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Hi Tom,
Claire let me know what has happened this year. So sorry to hear about the accident but see from the Website that you are coping in a truely inspirational way. I read that Sally has been amazing. So glad that your friends and family have rallied round. I wish you and your family the very best for 2010
Karenx
#20 by Claire Moller at January 7th, 2010
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Hey Tom, Happy new year!! It is great keeping up to date with all the happenings! J@M Rehab misses your friendly face and always big smile! Have a fabulous year with your family! Remember…ALWAYS BLESSINGS, NEVER LOSSES. Claire xxx
#21 by Karen Endenburg (Osborn) at January 17th, 2010
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Happy New Year to you all, I hope that it is a good year for you – good luck with the exercise bike!