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		<title>Comment on relate? by Annalise</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annalise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliantly said. Straight to the heart of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliantly said. Straight to the heart of it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on relate? by Jane Soper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jane Soper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 08:23:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tom I&#039;m not sure how to say how much I resonate with what you say here. I believe the absolute best we can give a friend in distress is listening totally attentively...no distractions...listening deeply with empathy and love and most of all not jumping in with our view and advice. Its taken me well over 60 years to learn this ,particularly with my children, I still find myself more often than not, leaping in with my point of view, my way, my advice, what I would like for each of you! But I am still learning and I give myself some leeway... and continue to practice listening deeply with empathy and love... walking alongside and dropping MY stuff, when I can! I love it that you already can see this clearly... this fills me with joy and proud-ness! Mum</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tom I&#8217;m not sure how to say how much I resonate with what you say here. I believe the absolute best we can give a friend in distress is listening totally attentively&#8230;no distractions&#8230;listening deeply with empathy and love and most of all not jumping in with our view and advice. Its taken me well over 60 years to learn this ,particularly with my children, I still find myself more often than not, leaping in with my point of view, my way, my advice, what I would like for each of you! But I am still learning and I give myself some leeway&#8230; and continue to practice listening deeply with empathy and love&#8230; walking alongside and dropping MY stuff, when I can! I love it that you already can see this clearly&#8230; this fills me with joy and proud-ness! Mum</p>
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		<title>Comment on relate? by Patch</title>
		<link>http://www.tomgilessoper.com/2012/01/relate/comment-page-1/#comment-36136</link>
		<dc:creator>Patch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 06:38:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When I was 10, and Mum had just left us, my Dad once told me &#039;never try and understand other peoples relationships because they&#039;re is so much that you will never know or understand.  Just be there, hug, listen &amp; love&#039;.  It was some of the best advice he ever gave me.  And we never had that post talk beer, although B&#039;s (above) cocktails sounds better. xxx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I was 10, and Mum had just left us, my Dad once told me &#8216;never try and understand other peoples relationships because they&#8217;re is so much that you will never know or understand.  Just be there, hug, listen &amp; love&#8217;.  It was some of the best advice he ever gave me.  And we never had that post talk beer, although B&#8217;s (above) cocktails sounds better. xxx</p>
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		<title>Comment on relate? by Bev Clark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev Clark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 12:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hola tom

how about a cocktail to kick off the week and a chance to chat.

xx b</description>
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<p>how about a cocktail to kick off the week and a chance to chat.</p>
<p>xx b</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pass by Kimberley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kimberley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 07:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:) my new years resolution and just the reminder I needed xxx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://www.tomgilessoper.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  my new years resolution and just the reminder I needed xxx</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pass by Patch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 10:04:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>your right, as usual. xxx Patch</description>
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		<title>Comment on Messages by pamina</title>
		<link>http://www.tomgilessoper.com/message-board/comment-page-7/#comment-33975</link>
		<dc:creator>pamina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 13:54:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was heartwarming, fun and inspirational to spend time with you and the family on New Year&#039;s Day Tom - and so wonderful to catch up with Brett and Robs and Lex after way too long. Love the spirited and honest stuff on your website - humanity and heroism in action on a daily basis. A reminder to us all to really feel, appreciate and nurture all the things we too often take for granted. 

Thanks too for the Mindfulness info.
 
With love and admiration....Pam and Andy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was heartwarming, fun and inspirational to spend time with you and the family on New Year&#8217;s Day Tom &#8211; and so wonderful to catch up with Brett and Robs and Lex after way too long. Love the spirited and honest stuff on your website &#8211; humanity and heroism in action on a daily basis. A reminder to us all to really feel, appreciate and nurture all the things we too often take for granted. </p>
<p>Thanks too for the Mindfulness info.</p>
<p>With love and admiration&#8230;.Pam and Andy</p>
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		<title>Comment on Pictures by NorCal Property Management</title>
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		<dc:creator>NorCal Property Management</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 19:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a touching story.....

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.rentnorcal.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Mountain View Property Management&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a touching story&#8230;..</p>
<p><a href="http://www.rentnorcal.com" rel="nofollow">Mountain View Property Management</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Medical Update as at 9pm today by agmmydkywlx</title>
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		<dc:creator>agmmydkywlx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 08:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Medical Update as at 9pm today by Boss</title>
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		<dc:creator>Boss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 01:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A provociavte insight! Just what we need!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A provociavte insight! Just what we need!</p>
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